人終要長大的。 換言之塿塺,是自己慢慢學著長大。 在人生的道上一步一個腳印,或深或淺記錄著蕓蕓眾生成長的深度。 成長越慢的人往往受得傷就會越多漵滫漬漃, 面對種種傷痕我們要做的不僅僅是承受,更多的是要感恩。 感謝那些讓你受傷的事情肇膉膌膏,忘記那些讓你受傷的人,傷害也許是無意的鉿鉺銦銗,成長卻是必須的。 ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 一,當你發現自己不再盲目的喜歡跟風似的和一群人混在一起, 開始尊重自己的意願做自己需要做的事情, 開始安排自己的種種計劃,規劃自己的方向,自己的獨處也變得充滿意義。 二,當你面對很多選擇時,不再猶豫不定, 腦中會很快得閃過三個以上選擇某種選項的必要原因。 有了自己獨立的思想,開始學著鎮定理性得思考問題。 三,當你開始覺得時間明顯得不夠用,漸漸的覺得睡懶覺, 逛街等是相當浪費時間金錢的事情,思想與行動上的時間概念達成了一致, 合理的安排時間,充實的生活會把自己帶入一個更喜歡的世界。 四,當你在上網或閱讀時,會把側重點從一味的關註娛樂雜談轉移到新聞國事, 經濟發展趨勢的版圖,娛樂雜談永遠是用來開懷大笑的, 而新聞國事則是提高個人認知程度關心國家發展以及愛國的表現, 開放的心靈開放的國度,互通有無,共同進步,閉關鎖國萬萬不得已, 經濟發展趨勢往往會影響人們囊中銀子的分量。 五,當你在飲食習慣上越來越重視食物的質量,養生之道的念頭闖入腦海, 學著堅持吃早餐,每天堅持鍛煉身體。俗話說得好,留在青山在,不怕沒柴燒。 六,當你再次被人問到愛情,友情,親情三者的分量時。 首先想到的應該是家中的媽媽,血濃於水是千古不變的真理。 七,當你再遇到不順心的事情時不再是用哭鬧來解決問題, 眼淚能沖刷的永遠是面容,能改變現狀的只有行動。 八,重視自己的朋友,愛人。因為這些人不是總會存在你的生命中的, 也許在不輕易間就物是人非了。在他們面前你無需作假, 天真無瑕的自己在這個大千世界裏是為他們上演的。切忌不要忘了真誠。 九,讓自己快樂,讓周圍的人快樂。絕對比金錢有價值。 十,在面對得與失,去與留的問題上,大度與開懷會讓復雜的事情變得簡單, 簡單的事情變得富有意義。 十一,任何時候不要與老人與小孩子計較,生命的開始是無知的,生命的完結應該快樂的。 十二,學著尊重每個人每個生物,就如向日葵喜歡面對太陽才會微笑。 十三,心態,健全平和的心態是始終貫穿成功之路的籌碼。 正確地樹立前進的目標,讓生活目標而不是在沈重氛圍的度過, 記住,任何時候都不要把自己搞得太累,生活的價值就完全失去了。 十四,自信的生活,開心的笑,成功與快樂並駕齊驅。不以物喜,不以己悲。 十五,淡忘仇恨,春暖花開。心有多大,舞臺就有多大。 |
Sunday, April 24, 2011
Sign of growing up
Friday, April 22, 2011
Me???
才储分析:您的性格类型倾向为“ ENFP ”(外向 直觉 情感 知觉) 热情洋溢、富有想象力。认为生活是充满很多可能性。 能很快地将事情和信息联系起来,然后很自信地根据自己的判断解决问题。 很需要别人的肯定,又乐于欣赏和支持别人。 灵活、自然不做作,有很强的即兴发挥的能力 ,言语流畅。 ENFP型的人充满热情和新思想。 他们乐观、自然、富有创造性和自信,具有独创性的思想和对可能性的强烈感受。 对于 ENFP型的人来说,生活是激动人生的戏剧。 ENFP型的人对可能性很感兴趣,所以他们了解所有事物中 的深远意义。 他们具有洞察力,是热情的观察者,注意常规以外的任何事物。 ENFP型的人好奇,喜欢理解而不是判断。 ENFP型的人具有想象力、适应性和可变性,他们视灵感高于一切,常常是足智多谋的发明人。 ENFP型的 人不墨守成规,善于发现做事情的新方法,为思想或行为开辟新道路,并保持它们的开放。 在完成新颖想法的过程中,ENFP型的人依赖冲动的能量。 他们有大量的主动性,认为问题令人兴奋。 他们也从周围其他人中得到能 量,把自己的才能与别人的力量成功地结合在一起。 ENFP型的人具有魅力、充满生机。 他们待人热情、彬彬有礼、富有同情心,愿意帮助别人解决问题。 他们具有出色的洞察力和观察力,常常关心他人的发展。 ENFP型的 人避免冲突,喜欢和睦。 他们把更多的精力倾注于维持个人关系而不是客观事物,喜欢保持一种广泛的关系。 您适合的领域有:未有明显的限定领域 您适合的职业有:(该类型存在的盲点和发展建议见MBTI第二步分析) · 人力资源经理 问问自己:我怎样才能更好地服务于人类?回答这个问题并付诸实践。 发现你独一无二的天赋,用它来为人类服务,你可以创造出自己所需要的所有财富。 当你富有创造里的语言与你的同胞们发生共鸣时,财富就会自动涌现,由潜在的变为实际的,由精神领域的变为物质领域的。 --------------- 迪帕克 |
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
无助-ing
Sunday, March 6, 2011
是不是等我离开了,你才会感动?
吃醋是因为我喜欢你,
生气是因为我在乎你,
发呆是因为我想你,
伤只是因为我不想失去你
某一天,你拨我的电话号码,语音告诉你我已经停机。你会不会难过?
某一天,你的手机不再频繁的响起,你会不会不停的等待?
某一天,你的短信收件箱里,不再有人可怜兮兮的说你好吗?你有没有好好吃饭,有没有好好照顾自己。你会不会不停的期盼?
某一天,不再有人无论是深夜还是白天都坐在电脑旁等待着你上线,等待着可以打电话给你,你会不会失落?
如果真的到了那样的一天,我还是希望你有一点点的难过,一点点的失落,一点点的想我,只要有一点点关于我的记忆就好,真的只要一点点就好。
某一天,你的生活中没有了我,请记住我对你的好;我的宽容。你要记得,我们虽然在地球的不同角落,但是我们头上顶着同一片蓝天。
某一天,你的记忆中没有了我,不要忘记我们在一起的每一分每一秒,不要忘记我喜欢什么,讨厌什么。而我无论如何都不会忘记任何一个关于你记忆的片断,你习惯什么,反感什么。感情世界里,没有“公平”两个字,我不会计较这些,我们在一起的时间,会是我这辈子里最美丽的回忆。我还要你记得答应过我什么,许诺过我什么。
如果有一天,你叹气的时候我不再去安慰你,你难过的时候不再陪你一起难过,心碎的时候不再去陪你一起心碎。那是我真的绝望了,真的心碎了,真的疲倦了。因为有太多太多的时候,我都是装,总是装作无所谓,可是我真的不在乎吗?而你呢?会在乎我的一切吗?可是我会很自责,会恨我自己,因为我做了一个不守承诺的人。我懂,其实都是我不好,我不该出现在你的生活中,我只该做一个默默爱你的人,默默等你的人,默默想你的人。可是我把一切一切都表现了出来。你知道了,清楚了,了解了,最终感动了没有?
是不是等我离开了,你才会感动?亲爱的:这是为你转的最后一篇日志!难道这就是你要给我的幸福麽?我不接受,却狠在乎。除了哦,我没有任何理由说我曾感染过幸福。谢谢你曾让我幸福过
Tuesday, March 1, 2011
23rd yrs old bday~~~
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
LOVE
所有的“我开玩笑的”都一定带着一点点认真;所有的“我不懂”其实还是有一点懂;每一次“我不在乎”背后都有一点点在乎,每一次“我没事”背后都还是有那么一点伤痛。
有些人永远都不会知道,他的一句话,我会记得很久;他的一个不以为然的承诺,我却苦苦守侯。之后,再经过时间而改变,而变淡,渐渐的,淡忘了。那种前一秒,还怀着满心期望,象被推上高高的天空;然后下一秒,满心的失望,象从高空狠狠坠落。
让女人念念不忘的是感情, 让男人念念不忘的是感觉。感情随着时间沉淀,感觉随着时间消失。终其是不同的物种,所以,谁又能明白谁的深爱 ,谁又能理解谁的离开。
法源寺中智法师说:你悟或者不悟,道就在那里,不悲不喜。你修或者不修,烦恼就在那里,不来不去。你明或者无明,难题就在那里,不增不减。你观或者不观,无常就在那里,不舍不弃。——来觉悟的怀里,或者让觉悟住进心里,默然相契,清寂欢喜。
从现在开始,聪明一点,不要问别人想不想你,爱不爱你?若是要想你或者爱你自然会对你说,但是从你的嘴里说出来,别人会很骄傲和不在乎你。------ 再也不要太在意一些人,太在乎一些事,顺其自然以最佳心态面对,因为这个世界就是这样:往往在最在乎的事物面前,我们最没有价值。
有时候,这个世界很大很大,大到我们一辈子都没有机会遇见。有时候,这个世界又很小很小,小到一抬头就看见了你的笑脸。所以,在遇见时,请一定要感激;相爱时,请一定要珍惜;转身时,请一定要优雅;挥别时,请一定要微笑。
不是每个人你都愿意等待,也不是所有人都值得你去等待;一句我等你,包含了很多的无奈、心酸、苦涩;或许是爱不到,或许是不能爱,不论怎样,我等你这个承诺,远比我爱你更动听。
女人其实很简单,她们会不顾一切的追求幸福,不在乎未来怎样,不在乎流言蜚语,不在乎名誉地位,不在乎异样眼神;女人其实很简单,会在失恋时抱头痛哭,会放下骄傲乞求男人回头,会痴痴等待,会幻想和他还能走到一起;女人其实很简单,给她们想要的就会可爱的笑,会肆无忌惮的展示自己的幸福。
太爱一个人,你会太在乎他/她跟谁在一起,心里是否有你;太爱一个人,你会刚说再见却又心生思念;太爱一个人,你会因为他/她的温柔而满怀甜蜜,更会因为他/她的冷漠而郁郁寡欢;太爱一个人,会无原则地忍受他/她,慢慢地他/她习惯于这种纵容,无视你为他/她的付出,甚至会觉得你很烦。
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
别让双鱼伤心
双鱼是多情
但也专情
双鱼多情 但最终心里只为一个人付出
双鱼无法对几个人同时付出真心!
双鱼是有韧性的
即使被伤了很多次
依然固执的认为
真诚一定能换来真心
但迎来的只是直接的打击
双鱼搞不懂为什么会如此
双鱼其实不怕拒绝
但最怕冷漠的拒绝
如果被拒绝 那么就彻底些
双鱼会默默的惦记对方
即使对方回应少的可怜
双鱼也会放下身价
主动发个短信打个电话
但往往得到的是冷漠的回应
双鱼一直在挣扎
因为真心喜欢
把自己逼到了悬崖边
双鱼想通了
真诚的心变成了灰色
热情的态度变的冰冷
让双鱼放弃不容易
但让你认为可以挽回看起来没脾气的双鱼
那你就大错特错了
如果说白羊女的冷漠
狮子座的冷漠是冰山
那双鱼的冷漠就是北极上万年的冰层
所以太多人搞不懂
为什么双鱼会突然变成一个人
那么冷漠
其实双鱼也搞不懂
为什么没有人敢接受自己的爱情
双鱼就是这么固执
爱了就要有回报
爱了就要YES OR NO
给我希望
却时刻让我绝望
再有韧性的双鱼
也会在这种打击下无情的离开!
为什么温柔的双鱼就这么走了
我只能笑笑....
为什么一开始就不珍惜呢
怪谁呢!
一个冷漠的双鱼
会远离任何与你有关的事情
你的眼泪
你的热情
你的挽回
物及必反在双鱼身上会得到完美的体现
有太多说人反感双鱼的墨迹和多想
如果不爱你如果不喜欢你..
双鱼真懒的对自己不感兴趣的人墨迹
这也是为什么
一方面双鱼挺能说的
一方面双鱼却很少有朋友
人际圈也很窄
这也是双鱼冷漠态度的另一面!
双鱼觉得没什么
朋友不在多少
在于真诚
双鱼不会像白羊那样和一群朋友打成一片
因为太累
因为对所有人真诚本是不可能的事
因为双鱼太讨厌虚伪!
12星座的结束
意味着轮回
双鱼有时候的心态真就像个老人
因为懂的太多
所以打心里不想伤害对方
但再慈祥的老人也有不满的时候!
双鱼永远也无法拒绝一个爱听自己墨迹
看着自己的双眼顽皮着微笑的老公
因为在双鱼来看
诉说是重视
倾听是尊重!
让双鱼专心对你太容易
只需要向双鱼诉说你的心事与不开心
同时倾听双鱼的喋喋不修就可以了
难道双鱼的墨迹就这么让你厌烦么!!
别忘记了 双鱼的墨迹蕴涵着许多用的找的道理!
双鱼的墨迹和忽悠完全是两回事!
一个轮回往往会忘记前生的所有
一旦双鱼爱的人让自己心灰意冷
绝对轮回
那么你就失去一个拥有一生幸福与被爱的机会!
别尝试让双鱼冷漠!
除非你真的不在乎
不然你的冷漠只能被双鱼加倍奉还
不留余地
不留情面!
敲破白羊女狮子女天平女的冰层不难
但如果让双鱼对你的心冰封
那纵然用三味真火也无济于事!
Monday, February 14, 2011
彷徨
Sunday, December 26, 2010
Finally I had made my decision~~~
我要过去纽西兰养羊和摘水果~~~
哈哈开玩笑啦。我呢是决定去那里上个短期课程,顺便想想degree想读什么。。。
说来有点失败,我不懂自己真正想要什么
或了那么久却对未来那么茫然,彷徨啊!!!
只能走一步是一步了,俗话说船到桥头自然直嘛。。。希望真的是这样啦
最好呢还能学会独立些,别再让人看不起了
但会有点舍不得呢,怎么说也在这里三年多了嘛。。。
东西也是多到。。。不知道要怎么处理它们了~~~烦哪烦哪
其实有点内疚的,亏FOM那么看得起我,信任我
但我呢就快要丢信走人,好像很坏厚。。。但我也没办法嘛
请原谅我,也希望你们能谅解~~~
GOMENE~~~
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
其实我很幸福
Sunday, November 1, 2009
Pls save the poor strayed dog
The residents of Pulau Ketam sent some 300 stray dogs to exile on a remote island where the harsh conditions almost certainly guarantee a horrible death. Of the 300 dogs sent there, more than three-quarters are presumed to be already dead. I traveled to the island with Sabrina Yeap of Furry Friends Farm and managed to save only one dog on this reconnaissance trip. We did see several other starving and dying dogs along the mangrove shore. I am mounting an urgent rescue mission to capture and transport the remaining survivors back to Sabrina's Furry Friends Farm animal shelter. But time is running out and there might be only skeletons and carcasses left to collect on our next trip. Boat hire is expensive there. It is a tourist area and it has already cost me a few hundred ringgit for boat hire alone, so far. The rescued dogs cannot be transported on the regular ferries. Almost nobody will lift a finger to help without a fee. This is understandable. The locals are already shaking their heads in disbelief that there are outsiders who want to save the animals they so casually discarded. Instead of pointing fingers and antagonising them, we need their co-operation to help save the unfortunate creatures. In the process, we also hope to educate the islanders on better treatment of animals. It would be an impossible mission if we didn't win their hearts. To help, e-mail TV Smith at tvsmith@mycen.com.my Fellow bloggers, you can also help by embedding the appeal poster above to your blog and linking to http://www.mycen.com.my/rescue (this page) We are aware it is a monumental task and appreciate all forms of support, assistance, suggestions, encouragement and your prayers. Thank you and don't forget to view the pictures of the dogs in order to appreciate their plight.TV Smith 3rd May 2009 PS: You can follow the progress of the rescue via updates here
Saturday, February 14, 2009
Lonely valentine???
i woke up early in the morning...take 11/2 train to Tampines
why???to interview a manager for our POM project
sigh....after that i took 11/2 train again back home
afternoon Siong called nme and chatted with me
we chat for 1 hr sth
he seems like not feeling so happy~~~
Siong cheer up lor~~~
later i go to uncle house...
saw many people carrying flower wor
so sweet...so nice...
wahahahah i really xiao liao
Sob sob poor me didnt receive any flower or choc...
mm....actually cant really say like that
at least still got receive some 'yi li qiao ke li'.....
wahahaha really sound kolian right~~~
never mind la single also not too bad ma...
dan sheng you dan sheng de hao~~~
haiz haiz haiz...
~QI~
Friday, February 6, 2009
21st...here i come!!!
after that is yang li bday
sigh going 21st liao,getting older and older
sob sob i dont want la
later very very fast become 30th
then 40th...
argggggggggggggg!!!
one day Yanxi and i too bored
so we calculated if we can live till 65th years old
only about 23740 days
i say that maybe we can live till 80th years old
then will have 31045 days
actually not a lots right
but we always wasting our times
like me lor i feel like i always spending my time sleeping
or doing nothings....
or even doing things that are not really importand or necessary
haiz....cherish the time
cherish my life...
although sometime will think of it but did i really do it???
hahaha must try harder lor~~~
gambade neh~~~~~
~QI~
Dear,这篇是为你而写的哦 ^^
Dear你也是我最好最好的朋友
所以有不开心都要告诉我哦
有人欺负你也要告诉我
我帮你扁那个人
哈哈哈。。。
其实啊每次看你的部落格我都会很感动的
因为你很常都会提到我呢~~~
那个围巾我本来是要选紫色的
后来看到红色当然换咯
因为红色才是你的最爱嘛~~~呵呵
本来没看到红色的
后来看到最后两个挂在那边我就问店员有没有的买
呵呵。。。觉得自己很勇敢喔~~~
好想念你们咯。。。
dear dear你好幸福哦
能常常和尧爸爸与nick一起去喝茶
我回到这又继续当宅女了。。。哈哈
记得你说的哦
围上那围巾时要想起我哦
哈哈我厉害叻知道用这招让你想我
哇哈哈哈哈~~~好佩服我自己哦
不知道下一次要到什么时候才可以看到你叻
希望越快越好呢
想你想你想你
你的部落格改得好可爱
什么时候也帮我弄呢???哈哈
你真得很努力耶,反观我真得很懒得po
佩服佩服那~~~
Pieces woman
She loves small animal and is gifted in training animals. She has sixth senses and she can guess what will happen next, it's her nature. Even she has a good sixth senses, she can not pick or foreseen her own choice of lover. She cannot tell if she meet a sincere guy or a one night stand guy.
She likes to buy and pick her own clothes. She likes to dress cute and be cute. Pisces woman tend to be a good looking woman and she has a nice skin. Her hands and feet are small and soft. Pisces woman loves to shop for shoes as if she collects them.
She is a hot lady that everyone wants her. Whether she has a man in her life or not, she will never try to overpower any man. It's not even in her thought. She thinks man can handle things better, and she will make her man feel that way. She is an easy going person, so being with her is easy. She is a confident woman and likes to make people who stay with her happy. She knows how to please and how to comfort a man. If something is wrong, she will try to make other people belief that it's must be because of someone else, not because of her love one. She will not push her man to be ambition but to make him feel like he should be happy with the way he is now. She is happy with you for what you are now.
A Pisces woman, if she has a bad childhood, she will always remember it and it will make her a very unhappy person. She will pity herself and feel sorry for herself. She tends to hurt herself with out knowing it and so vulnerable to drugs (real drugs or just sleeping pills). She has many choices and you can never tell which path she going to take. If you love her, then hold her tight because she never knows why she did what she did or what she will do next.
A complex character .You may think she is a shy innocent type and cannot hurt anyone , then you are wrong. You might think she is a fragile person who needs protection, wrong again. She has been through a lot, a tough cookie. She is a dreamer and love the word "Love", so she is the type who will buy gift for anyone for any occasion, especially if it is a gift for wedding or an anniversary even for someone who she does not know so well.
Be very careful if fall in love with Pisces woman. She can be a total different person before and after. She can be an angel before and later a witch, but everyone is not perfect, right? She will be soft and gentle most of the time, so not to worry. She is emotional and extremely sensitive when she frequently got hurt. She is the type who can cry her heart out. She can have a secret fear inside, when she says she does not need anyone. She badly needs someone to protect her, but sometimes she can hide that feeling by being stubborn.
She likes to hide her shyness and her weakness from her enemy. She does not like to follow any fixed rules. She can be a good housewife if you know how to handle her. Many men will ask to marry her because she is a 100% woman. If she wants to be sweet, she is a real angel.
Mm...how true is it???i also dont know wor~~~haha
~QI~
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Last Sem lor
we can wear our own clothes lor
but still have so limitation
haha too bad we can only wear for 3 months
recently we need to write resume
cause going to attachment lor
xian la how to write wor~~~
so difficult la~~~
New Year coming~~~but dont have the feeling wor
why leh???
mm.....need to tidy up our house liao
otherwise when mum come ar..
haha she will say ah bu what happen why so messy???
wahahahaha~~~
so gambade lor still got several days to go wor wahhhaha
~QI~
Monday, January 12, 2009
6月17日
我还记得这日子哦。。。
他,记得吗???
不知不觉快两年了,真的好快哦
忘了吗?我还没哦
再给我一些时间吧~~~
我相信我可以做到的
我并不像造成任何人的困扰
但有时真得很想知道你在想什么
向前看吧~~~
快乐些吧~~~加油咯
昨天真得很快乐
谢谢你哦~~~
谢谢你陪我,还包容了我的任性
哈哈。。。至少是个很好的回忆
真的~~~
~QI~
Wednesday, January 7, 2009
My holiday
during attachment maybe hardly can come back
but time passed quickly...
my holiday going to finish but i feel like i had done nothing for my holiday
after come back from Kuching mum sick
Before that i plan to go Kuching again before i go back Sg
i wanna help aunt make new year sweet and biscuit
i wanna go out with friends which i havent seen for long long time
but now....sigh i think i hardly can fulfill all these things liao
cause mum hospitalised and i dont know when she can discharged
i had to stay at hospital to accompany her
this is the 7th day...
hospital is really a super duper boring place
thanks to my dear(qian) and yao
this few days come and accompany me
otherwise i will bored till death gua haha
glad to have you two as my best friends~~~
Luckily i still manage to countdown for a new year
i go The Queen with my bro and friends
vodka plus 7 up quite nice to drink
too bad i am not a good drinker
haha i felt sleepy after i drank several glasses
maybe i should train myself~~~
Heard that two of them together liao
quite hard to believe but actually also not so suprised liao
i should know it at first
idiot me...why am i so stupid
dont think too muchas they will not felt sorry
just ignored them~~~hack care
mind my own business and protect myself for being hurt is the most important things la
try to forget all unhappy things and person
gambadeh yo~~~
~QI~